…anyways, whatcha having for dinner tonight?

i see now why they married each other. in sickness and in grift…

  • zipper [any]@hexbear.netOP
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    i know that the rhetoric he pushed was vile but videos like there really strike me in the feels for some reason. he was a father. he was a husband. but he was also a fascist. and the policies he helped to instate, if i were to be an american, would harm me immensely. it’s conflicting because yes he’s a piece of shit and a sellout and a grifter, but these videos (as corny as some may be) give him humanity beyond who he was politically. it’s just… fuck man.

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      I find myself having similar feelings towards people I work around. Some of them seem like good people… Because I’m a straight passing white guy, I mask whatever mental bullshit I’ve got going on well, and I work hard. To them, I’m one of them. Ngl I kind of hate that. I haven’t had much privilege in life but that’s obviously a big one.

      Anyway, at the end of the day we are all human.

      It’s just that some of those humans have chosen to spew hateful ideologies and influence others to live that ideology.

      So fuck him and his family.

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        sometimes i’ve gotta remind myself that because all these people look so normal. so ordinary. both kirk and erika look like normal blokes who’d live down the street from you and bake cookies with their kids on saturdays. but then you remember that kirk called on violence towards marginalized groups and peddled so much propaganda that definitely resulted in at least someone being radicalized and all of a sudden their humanity seems… almost obsolete. like it doesn’t matter that they’ve got families and hopes and dreams because they’re so adamant on ruining the lives of others for being part of the current out-group. i just hope his kids do better.

        edit: nvm kirk can go get fucked

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      Yeah, things like this present an emotional nexus where you’re pulled in many different directions and there is no “right” or “wrong” way to feel, only useful and not useful. All these things are true at once, and it’s up to each person to decide how to proceed with it. I personally choose to embrace the “lol he dead” angle because I view it as the most pragmatic for me, but i won’t disparage anyone who doesn’t, as long as they don’t go down the harmful lib path of wishful whitewashing.

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        well said. i don’t wanna be the one to go “LMAO sucks to suck loser” about all this but i won’t pretend to mourn either. he’s dead. okay. he was a bad person and his life’s work led to a fascist party coming to power. he had kids and a wife and was a father of questionable quality. that’s that, i s’pose.