He’s very shy but been making progress. been leaving food out twice a day for him and a few others. he used to run on sight, but with a lot of treats I finally got to pet him yesterday. I’m hoping to get him into the house before the snow hits us.

    • Jay@lemmy.caOP
      link
      fedilink
      arrow-up
      2
      ·
      4 hours ago

      Ya he’s a lot of floof… just like his sister. His other brother that I already have in the house is a short hair. (The one in the back. Cinder (front) is an unrelated ex-stray I took in a few years ago.

    • Jay@lemmy.caOP
      link
      fedilink
      arrow-up
      1
      ·
      edit-2
      3 hours ago

      If I bring him into the house, he’ll be my 4th black cat (Cinder, Ember, Bam Bam, and Dale) although I have other flavors of cat as well.

  • Stolas@lemmy.ca
    link
    fedilink
    arrow-up
    4
    ·
    5 hours ago

    He’s beautiful. Hi Dale, please trust the stranger that’s feeding you and go into the house when it gets cold.

    • Jay@lemmy.caOP
      link
      fedilink
      English
      arrow-up
      1
      ·
      5 hours ago

      He has beautiful eyes! Some cats take a little more effort than others but I hope he warms up to you soon! Most don’t take too long, but one elderly ex-stray that I have took me nearly two years to make friends with. She’s now sleeping in my window sill.

    • Jay@lemmy.caOP
      link
      fedilink
      arrow-up
      2
      ·
      5 hours ago

      Thanks! Saw Dale again this morning when I put breakfast out but unfortunately he didn’t want to come close because another Stray (Gavin) was around and they don’t get along very well. I did get to pet him earlier this morn (around 2 am) and give him treats tho.

  • Jay@lemmy.caOP
    link
    fedilink
    arrow-up
    27
    ·
    1 day ago

    I just got back in from outside. He showed up early today (I usually put food out at 6am and 6 pm) so he got first dibs on the food, and was all in for some scritches before he sat down with a full belly here to chill with me for a bit.

    • Jay@lemmy.caOP
      link
      fedilink
      arrow-up
      18
      ·
      1 day ago

      Strays are a bit of an issue around here. In the last 7 or so years I’ve gotten over a dozen fixed but a few more show up every year, so I do what I can for them with the little I have. I already have one of his brothers and his sister in the house. He has one more brother outside that is a total lush for attention and runs to me when he sees me, but he doesn’t want to come into the house because his sister is a bit of a bully.

    • Jay@lemmy.caOP
      link
      fedilink
      English
      arrow-up
      21
      ·
      1 day ago

      His family was born under a neighbor’s old Ford truck and he’s living under a different neighbor’s shed right now. I already have his sister and brother in the house, but he’s a little less trusting than they were.

    • Rhaedas@fedia.io
      link
      fedilink
      arrow-up
      10
      ·
      1 day ago

      May not be, but behavior will give away a stray/feral. A cat who has been in a house or had someone caring for them acts a lot different to humans.