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  • You seem to be past the biggest hurdle that people have, communication. Only you two can truly say what’s best for each of you, but my opinion is to find the common denominator, which is her level of caution and development. Reason being, if you push her faster or farther than she feels is comfortable, you’re not doing it for both of you but for yourself. If you’re already close to begin with, either something will mutually happen or it will stay the same, and there’s nothing wrong with that. I don’t think you can do a trial run and then step back to before.

    Above all, continue to talk about it. I think no matter what happens, being open with each other will have better results than trying to make something happen that isn’t ready or isn’t there for one of you. You might find that your efforts to let her breath allows her to figure out where she stands and gives you what you want.