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Cake day: 2023年8月2日

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  • I think most people can’t just replay their childhood at will. I’ve recently been talking to my siblings a lot (and have also previously had similar conversations with my spouse about our history) and am often told that they’re very impressed by the scope of my memory.

    However, the stories I recall to them aren’t just memories that I sought out and retrieved. They’re things that I was reminded of by the path of our conversations (or other external stimuli) - what you might call prompts.

    If you were to browse my comment history, you would see a similar phenomenon: I tell lots of anecdotes and they are (at least in my eyes) relevant to the conversation, but for many of those stories, I didn’t have them immediately available. Instead they were summoned by the comment thread.

    edit: Maybe this is an ADHD thing. That said, while I’m almost certainly neurodivergent, I’ve never been diagnosed with ADHD and don’t believe I have it. However, it’s not impossible and I don’t mean to invalidate your perspective, just provide mine.










  • According to my parents, I first started playing with (computer) keyboards when I was two. I haven’t stopped since.

    When I was nineteen and at my first IT job, they encouraged me to fill in anything relevant in their skill tracking portal. One of the skills listed was “typing.” I marked that that was a skill of mine and entered “17” for years of experience because I didn’t know what else to put.

    I was roundly mocked for this.


  • I do the same.

    Only, I message my work friends on my work chat on my work device and invite them to become my friends on my non work chat (usually discord since that’s where everyone is, Signal if the friend in question is there). That way we can talk about anything we want, even complain about work, without fear of eventual retribution if a bad boss / chat admin enters the equation.