• Awoo [she/her]@hexbear.net
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    The man wore a multicolored sign around his neck that read “anti-contact non-offending pedophile,” according to law enforcement sources familiar with the matter. The sign bore the colors of a flag that has been used in recent years by people who identify as “MAPs,” or “minor-attracted persons.”

    He also allegedly had the flag representing “MAPs” draped on his back bearing the same message.

    Wasn’t this shit invented by fascists on 4chan to try and smear lgbt people with pedophiles? Did some actual self-identifying pedophiles take to it? Or is this a fascist doing a false flag? Or both perhaps?

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      Wasn’t this shit invented by fascists on 4chan to try and smear lgbt people with pedophiles

      Yes. This shit almost reads like a psyop made for the Nazi social media outrage machine. It’s all so on brand for this disgusting shit

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        This shit almost reads like a psyop made for the Nazi social media outrage machine.

        Yes that was my initial reaction to this paragraph.

        Am I wrong in saying there’s also no way NBC is oblivious to where this shit comes from? I thought it was quite strange that the origin of this term wasn’t mentioned anywhere, just straight reported like it’s not suspicious at all and isn’t notable?

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      Idk about the specific term but the concept has been around for ages. Harry Hay is known for his prominent role in 20th c gay rights movement, longtime CPUSA membership, founding the radical faeries. And also consistent advocacy for “intergenerational love” which he saw as integral to lgbt liberation. This view was widely rejected by the movement as a whole. So on 4chan they didn’t invent it they dredged up an old settled debate and make it look as tho it was still live.

      There is also an episode of Brass Eye (1990s) where they interview a person from a pro pedophile organization.

      Dan Savage has occasionally featured a researcher in his show/column who works in this area.

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        The sexual liberation movement in that time period had no consensus on the taboo on pedophilia at the time, some viewed it as yet another oppressive institution causing stunted development; there wasn’t good science at the time on how it was different from, say, homosexuality.

        It’s how the infamous “Kentler Project” happened. Helmut Kentler was a renowned German sexologist, top of his field. He contributed a lot to advocacy for sex ed and homosexuality (he was gay himself with adopted sons). As he dealt a lot with the consequences of sexual repression, he believed “consensual pedophilia” could be beneficial to the child’s knowledge of sex. Late in his life however he changed his mind, as notions of power dynamics became established and he became convinced that a child could never properly consent.

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          (I hope I have said this properly to not give any wrong idea. And I hope I have correctly represented the factual matters; I’m not a huge expert on the subject.)

          Harry Hay really dug in his heels about the whole issue. As I understand it, it caused him to become isolated from gay lib movement in the 80s and 90s after decades of devoting his life to it. I was told that his constant, loud, obtrusive advocacy on the issue served to basically call the question and he decisively lost the vote. He was constantly getting kicked out of gay stuff because he would not shut up about how great pedophilia was no matter what the circumstances. He just thought it was a bunch of loser assimilationist respectability politics. As far as I know he never reconsidered and was bitter about it til death.

          Hay said that his support for “intergenerational love” came out of a positive experience he had in his early teens with an older lover who taught him how to be a homosexual man. I’ve met people who had similar stories of initiation to tell and particularly contexts of pervasive and violent homophobia the relationships are recalled overall fondly. Even though with the maturity of adulthood and more collective sophistication about power dynamics, the “good deeds” of the older party look a lot more self interested than selfless devotion to the education of the youth. But the effect was that a lot of gays had the very visceral memory that the first affirming and affectionate experiences they had were in the context of what we would now, from a distance, easily classify as abuse. I’d have to check to be certain, but in Stone Butch Blues, doesn’t comrade Feinberg have a positive portrayal where the main character who is a teenager hooks up with someone much older?

          It’s one of those “ironies” that people who think they are acting to protect children from abuse by keeping the children themselves closeted and ignorant about sex are actually facilitating abuse. Now that things are increasingly permissive of homosexuality among and between teenagers, it’s a lot more difficult to spin this sort of web around a child. But some people are still trying to do it, they are still trying to legitimize their current desires and may not be interested in re-casting their own life history to view themselves as victims of abuse rather than recipients of a special gift.

          So while there are lots of anti-LGBT reasons to highlight this debate I think it has historically been a legitimate one which had to be worked through. It is also not unique to LGBT people as the majority of child sex abuse by adults continues to be heterosexual and patriarchal in nature. As with many other questions relating to sex, LGBT people collectively interrogated and reached conclusions decades before cis/heterosexual even got around to thinking about it. So therefor have a rich literature and history of engagement that can be drawn upon, vs cis/het mainstream culture which has only in the past few years been somewhat de-normalizing “liking them young”.

          It is typical counter-insurgence type of stuff to take an actual conflict that exists in a movement and exaggerate, distort and misframe it in order to cause internal disunity and to make outsiders get the complete wrong idea. That’s what 4chan is doing.

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    #1. Why a wikipedia conference? I’ve never seen any notable paedophile drama from them

    #2. How fucking embarrassing would it be to be beaten up by people who edit an encyclopaedia for fun? They’d be listing the body parts they kick in Latin and correcting each other on the pronunciation.

    edit: With citations. They would cite formal literature about the bone they break to prove they’re breaking it.

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    after an Ohio man draped in a sign declaring him to be an “anti-contact non-offending pedophile” got onstage with a gun and threatened to kill himself

    let-em-cook

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    Can you just slap “non-offending” on something and that counts? Perhaps I’ll tell a non-offending racist joke.

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      I think it’s possible to be attracted to people under the legal age of consent and not be a terrible person. It is a hard life, as you cannot have sex with another person in the way that you enjoy, and probably want to avoid being near underage people as much as possible.

      In modern Western society you cannot find anyone to talk to about it, since therapists may even be required to report you. And any sort of erotica to masturbate to is mostly illegal - even just written stories that people made up.

      So I kind of admire someone who recognizes they have this attraction, and takes steps to avoid acting on it, just like someone who has desire to harm people - although at least someone with a rape fantasy or a murder fantasy can talk to a psychologist about it. I wouldn’t want a “non-offending pedophile” near kids though…