like, if I’m nice (as I would prefer to be), a man might get the wrong impression, but I’m also afraid to be rude or do anything to upset them so I have to be the right kind of nice or polite - it’s a real double-bind, and something I don’t experience with women


As a man, if I’m nice to a woman, they think I want to sleep with them. 50/50 chance they’re rude back. Jokes on them, I compliment everyone if I have the chance.
Hi, not sure if you’re aware but this community is Women’sSuff, a woman only community for women to discuss women’s topics with other women. Rule 1 says women only quite clearly. We appreciate your input but would prefer you relay your experiences elsewhere in future.
Condolences, this made it to the public feed so there is going to be some people showing up without reading any rules.
Which is why we assume ignorance over malice, until further clarification is given.
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no need to get defensive, please play nice - and as hildegarde mentioned, please do not comment further
it’s totally OK that you didn’t notice the community you were in before commenting - it’s no big deal and happens all the time; and thank you for your understanding 💛
Every damned time…
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please play nice
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