like, if I’m nice (as I would prefer to be), a man might get the wrong impression, but I’m also afraid to be rude or do anything to upset them so I have to be the right kind of nice or polite - it’s a real double-bind, and something I don’t experience with women
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no need to get defensive, please play nice - and as hildegarde mentioned, please do not comment further
it’s totally OK that you didn’t notice the community you were in before commenting - it’s no big deal and happens all the time; and thank you for your understanding 💛
Every damned time…