• CliffordBigRedDog [he/him]@hexbear.net
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    5 hours ago

    https://econu.substack.com/p/the-job-applicant-who-was-ghosted?r=64j4w3&triedRedirect=true

    a clay tablet from the state archives of Assyria, dating from some time between 911 and 609 BC.

    The surviving contents of the tablet read:

    To the deputy (governor), my lord: your servant Aššur-reṣiwa. Good health to my lord!

    Why is my lord silent (while) I wag my tail and run about like a dog? I have sent three letters to my lord. Why does my lord not consent to send an answer to (my) letter? Let my lord return me to my office. As much as I served your father, so let me now serve you!

  • vala@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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    11 hours ago

    Why don’t they just ask chatGPT since it seems to be ingrained into every single other part of the hiring process now?

  • AFineWayToDie [he/him]@hexbear.net
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    12 hours ago

    I spent almost 2 years looking, then I lucked out and found out that my old job from about 20 years ago was open again. My old boss was even still there. I’d probably still be looking otherwise.

  • tamagotchicowboy [he/him]@hexbear.net
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    10 hours ago

    Yep, I’m trying to get out of my particular retail hell, this place fucking sucks, I’m so chained to the register all closing shift I can’t even go pee or drink water, fucking full on labor violations but no one gaf few coworkers tried reporting and no luck, and I already have shitty kidneys. I have such bad luck I can’t even catch another equally shitty job for an interview to scare people off. It doesn’t help I live in a pornographically poor rural Gummo hellhole, so all that’s available are retail hell jobs and hellish medical. Online jobs scarce af, and I’m so thoroughly burnt out at my in person job I’ve fucked up on my online job I’m on my last warning for performance, my health has also taken a huge hit, talk about a ridiculous catch22.

    Right now I’m really eyeing some hell medical jobs that offer paid training since its a way out, but I’ll probably get ghosted after the interview, if I even make it that far.

  • corgiwithalaptop [any, love/loves]@hexbear.netM
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    14 hours ago

    I spent 2 years looking for a tech job, with 10 years experience in the roles I was shooting for. Its fucking ROUGH out there. Luckily I started working for a nonprofit via Americorps right now, but if there’s any people who want to apply to software companies, hit me up and I can share some sites that aren’t on the beaten path that got me some interviews.

    It fucking sucks, and im underemployed now but im in the “at least its something” camp, plus its good work so hopefully this next year let’s me career pivot into homelessness work

    • peeonyou [he/him]@hexbear.net
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      8 hours ago

      same… im about 1 year in and though i’ve had a few interviews, they’ve all been real WTF moments… 4 years ago all i had to do was think about looking for a job and i’d have 3 offers lined up… now i get the first interview, the guy can’t find my resume, doesn’t listen to a word I say, doesn’t know anything about the job he’s interviewing me for, and then i get the rejection afterward. this is the craziest shit

  • Awoo [she/her]@hexbear.net
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    17 hours ago

    Just lie, say self employment as like… Anything. IT services are great for this because nobody can fucking check anything if it doesn’t exist anymore. Or just “painter and decorator” is pretty good. Gardening services. The kinds of things you can cold call people for and there’ll be odd jobs people need doing.

    Pretty much anyone could pretend to have done a variety of IT services as self employed without any ability to verify any of it. Say you were the top seller for search optimisation services on Fiverr. It’s impossible to verify and easily makes more than enough income for one person a year to justify it.

  • AntiOutsideAktion [he/him]@hexbear.net
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    18 hours ago

    I got myself into a situation where I needed a job NOW and almost two years later I’m still delivering boxes for Amazon. Gonna put my diplomas up in the un-air-conditioned cargo hold

    Looking for a job on top of 10 hour days in 100 degree weather is just too much…

  • GayTuckerCarlson [she/her]@hexbear.netOP
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    18 hours ago

    Ive been to double digit job interviews this year and gotten nothing, I’m going back to school instead now lmao agony-deep

    I went to a job interview and got ghosted by HR, I sat in the lobby for half an hour before stealing a magazine and leaving

    Another interview was 3 hours long (agony-mescaline) and they ghosted me

    I got a rejection email 4 months later so thats something I guess

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      Yeah I worked through trying to get accommodations at work, got a small fraction of what I asked for, and have been suffering since. It’s probably in my head, but I feel like it mostly made things worse. This is why people suffer in silence; at least that way there’s no retribution

      • TheSpectreOfGay [hy/hym, she/her]@hexbear.net
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        4 hours ago

        they say that they’re very accepting and accommodating, but at the end of the day a capitalist will never do something that’d hurt their bottom line. making money is way more important than throwing scraps to the people making them that money

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          It’s been a very humbling experience -was diagnosed later in life and mask/present as “typical”. Seemed to go:

          Me: ahh finally learned why I feel the way I do - I’ll feel so much being able to accept myself!

          Them: hey put that mask back on! No one wants to see that!!

          At least when I was delusional, there was less self loathing