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  • You’re absolutely right, but the average person does not think like you. Most people don’t ever think about stuff like this.

    And so you currently have a very “high-level”, rational view of technology, that makes it amazing specifically for you.

    However, you either disregard or lack contact with people that are (vastly) different. When looking at a technology in relation to the world, like you want to know about in this topic, you have to view the effects on those different people from you as well. And what other people in this thread said is simply observable and happening. A very small percentage uses the internet/technology like you do. The overall effect on the population is not solely amazing.





  • It’s not the absolute truth. But it’s most likely the largest part of the explanation.

    People like putting blame on “society”, and while societal pressures surely play a part, the reason it’s so nice to mainly blame society is because it creates a problem that has an acceptable solution.

    Because what do you say when you say society is mainly to blame here? You’re saying it’s completely fine for many men not to have sex. Just have to fix society making it hard for them to live without sex. If my assumption is correct though, that doesn’t help those men very much. But who does it help? Anyone those men would want to have sex with, because they’re not under “threat” anymore.





  • It’s literally the most natural thing in the world to equate reproductive effectiveness to worth. All life is “worth” their reproductive effectiveness. So not having sex is very relevant to our entire existence as a species.

    As such, our mental faculties put a heavy punishment in the form of mental pain, i.e. “self-worth attached to getting laid”, on this whole thing.

    This has very little to do with societal expectations. It’s simple biology. Not getting laid is supposed to be one of the worst things for an organism.

    You’re rationally right with what you say, but it’s simply not very relevant. Rationality does not help with our most deeply rooted biological desires. The only thing that helps is getting them fulfilled, i.e. having sex.











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    2 months ago

    these people didnt post those pictures with the intent for someone to jack off to.

    An assumption. How do you know? In my view, posting your own pics on social media is at least in some way meant to display yourself in a pleasing manner to other people. I’m sure many people post themselves on social media to be admired. And I’ve seen so many instances of people specifically displaying their cleavage or skimpy outfits or for men going topless etc.

    It’s really not that farfetched that people post pics on social media with at least the awareness that they might possibly or even likely be masturbated to.