Or any lesson for that matter

  • bridgeenjoyer@sh.itjust.works
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    4 days ago

    I don’t need to instantly be a pro at everything I do.

    I don’t need to do every single thing the hardest way possible starting from the ground up.

    I won’t learn these because my degree of ethics and authenticity is wayy too high.

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    7 days ago

    That it’s safe for me to be seen as I am, and I need to show up vulnerably and imperfectly in order to move forward in life.

    I struggle with rsd and anxiety among other things, and instead of learning this lesson I keep hiding away and not actually living.

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    7 days ago

    “Stay the hell away from pizza and croissants even if you spent half your life in Southern Europe, dough doesn’t agree with you!” 😭

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    People hate to receive unsolicited advice, however useful or well-meant it is. By all means offer, but don’t force the issue if it’s declined.

    And don’t say ‘I told you so’ if things end up going south, however tempting it might be.

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    I don’t understand why people care so much about what other people look like.

    I’ll never get it. But I don’t think I’ve ever met someone who didn’t like obsesses over their ‘look’ and go off about how other people are horrible for not looking they way think they should.

    and I kind of lose all respect for people who go on their little rants about fashion, or teeth, or haircuts or any of that, especially when they like use it to boost their own ego how they don’t wear crocs or something, it’s so weird and petty and gross.

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      6 days ago

      The only time I care is when they should be old enough to dress appropriately and they choose not to

  • darthsundhaft@piefed.social
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    7 days ago

    Not taking for granted what I actually have. I constantly fail to live in the moment. I always seek more. Never satisfied with what I have. And I say I want a long term partner. lmao

  • ZeroCool@piefed.ca
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    7 days ago

    Limited edition/novelty snack flavors are never good. No matter how many mediocre snacks I’ve had to finish over the years I never learn my lesson.