• LadyAutumn@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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    3 days ago

    So like I said in my previous comment, no one is driven by such strong compulsion that they must sexually assault someone. Being a pedophile is not a sexual orientation it is literally a desire to commit sexual violence. If someone told me “I am so driven to commit acts of sexual violence against rhe vulnerable that I am voluntarily putting myself into a mental health facility” my first thought would be that I hope they are being involuntarily held.

    Pedophilia is not a disability. No i am not being ableist by directly correlating pedophilia with rapists. They are literally obsessed with rape. They see children as a means to an end for their personal sexual gratification. I would react to someone saying they are a pedophile the same way as if someone told me they desperately want to sexually assault someone.

    Being a pedophile is not a sexual orientation. It is not a sexuality.

    • stray@pawb.social
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      No one said that pedophilia is a sexual orientation; it’s a mental disorder. Sexual orientations are not mental disorders.

      Being a pedophile is not synonymous with abusing children. Those suffering from pedophilic disorder are capable of not harming children, just as those without pedophilic disorder are capable of sexually abusing children. The disorder and the act of harm are different things.

      You can think of it like drug addiction. The urge to use the drug is there, but you still get to choose whether or not you act on it. Choosing the right thing is a lot easier with professional mental care and community support.

      Ideally we want to identify and help every pedophile before they abuse a child, and we can’t do that if we conflate them with rapists while they’re still innocent.