This particular headache happened awhile ago, I’m much better at the vetting process nowadays then I used to be.

Basically remembering to mention that I’m bi before activities happen.

EDITED to add alt text (I’ve only done this a few times (in particular for art I’ve done) so I’m not too good at it with memes)

  • infinitesunrise@slrpnk.netEnglish
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    2 days ago

    Yeah it seems like there’s a shocking amount of “telling people their preferences” in the LGBT community. I had a girlfriend who insisted I wasn’t straight just because she had a penis. As if her getting bottom surgery would have retroactively certified me as straight again.

    Like anyone who tells people something that only that person can know for themself, it’s usually more about their need to be comfortable within some unresolved dissonance they have, rather than wanting to help resolve something for you.