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Cake day: June 9th, 2023

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  • Sometimes you can have hernias that you don’t notice (and don’t pose an immidiate health risk) until they get irritated or damaged. This can happen when a hernia is small(ish) and only contains fat from inside your abdomin.

    These hernias can exist from when you were born as well. So you may never have had the tissue there to hold everything inside inside.

    You can get these hernias fixed (and you should) but in a lot of cases (unless they get trapped intestine in them) they are considered “elective surgeries”. What this means is that unless they are actively hindering your life then your health insurance is likely to be a bastard about paying for it.

    I unfortunately learned all of this from finding a small hernia because it got really painful after I got pneumonia a few years ago. We found 4 hernias but only 1 was causing pain so my insurance only covered the surgery for 1. So I’ve got 3 more that are just ticking time bombs.









  • Seemingly once a year my windows machine goes into an infinite loop of bluescreens. It’s because of my wireless/bluetooth card everytime.

    Windows will update the driver during one of it’s bug updates, fail, then I have to go into safe mode and install the correct driver. Then it’s business as usual.

    Windows doesn’t seem to care that I told it to never update my drivers, it’ll still do it once a year.



  • It’s definitely shitty and stressful a lot of the time that’s for sure…

    The air is changing in the area (especially compared to when I was young) in a good way but the ones that have shitty views are getting more blood thirsty in how they talk. The youths are getting more progressive here, hell I was getting ice cream with a boyfriend a few months ago and we overheard some teens openly talking about being queer. When we were that young we wouldn’t have dared to do that fearing for our lives.

    If shit does hit the fan (like we do fear) at least my friends and found family have plans for how to make it out the other side alive. And hopefully inspire others to continue the fight no matter the odds.


  • When I was young and discovering myself, my existence was illegal in my area and queer people in my area were still heavily persecuted.

    I won’t go into details about the terrible things I’ve seen and experienced as I’m sure nobody here wants to hear it.

    Laughing not to cry and all that you know?

    Edit: I’m also not a fan of how you brought (and doubled down) on trying to make it a race thing.