• saimen@feddit.org
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      2 months ago

      Going to eat as a first date is bad anyways. Should do something where you are a not forced to sit in front of each other for a fixed amount of time. Why not go for a walk in a park, take a coffee or other things that are more “open”.

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        2 months ago

        Means you pay for your own meal. Not sure why it where but probably some racist thing, I assume

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          More of a cultural thing, I think. From what I’ve gathered from a friend that lives in the Netherlands the dutch are pretty serious about paying for their own meals and getting people to pay for theirs. I even remember seeing a sketch made by some dutch people where one gives a bite of their sandwich to a coworker or something and then they tell the coworker that they’re owed x amount for it.

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          I’ve heard it all my life. I just assumed the Dutch were cheap, and won’t pay for anyone else but themselves.