I may need to say something that is (seemingly) nice about someone, but I’d prefer it be very subtly backhanded or nearly believable hyperbole.
I may need to say something that is (seemingly) nice about someone, but I’d prefer it be very subtly backhanded or nearly believable hyperbole.
“ bless your heart”
That one just seems meaningless.
In the south, it’s considered a polite way to say “go fuck yourself”
it’s also synonymous with “you’re a fucking idiot, stop talking”
Yeah I know (not familiar with the precise connotations but the general concept at least.)
I don’t see why it would be a compliment in any way, at most it would just be confusing.
It’s not a compliment, but it is a backhanded comment. My grade for the commenter? 50%. Didn’t understand the assignment, but tried anyway.
I can’t edit my comment for some reason so…
Edit: bless their heart
You too? Haven’t been able to edit for a couple of weeks. I think it has to do with a ban on some comm.
I can be more than a little annoying at times. Wouldn’t surprise me if this was the reason lol
My experience is it’s used as “go fuck yourself” when it’s coming from strangers or people trying to place themselves as superior. In more familiar relationships, it can also can be used to express sympathy (especially about pain or difficult circumstances), as thanks, or to communicate you’ve misunderstood something (but it’s okay that you did).