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ButtBidet [he/him]@hexbear.net to memes@hexbear.netEnglish · 1 month ago

kinda true??

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kinda true??

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ButtBidet [he/him]@hexbear.net to memes@hexbear.netEnglish · 1 month ago
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    My one gripe with this framing is it assumes every woman is easily able to find/form a group of gal pals. There’s a lot of women who, for various reasons, have trouble building friendships with other women. This narrative that loneliness isn’t a problem for women because they always have each other just alienates those women and makes them feel like there’s something “wrong” with them if they don’t have a feminine friend group.

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      Sorry about that. I don’t know enough about the perspective/experience of women.

      I think it’s not framing it as a joke on how dudes become reactionaries at the drop of a hat, but I’ll give it to you that it could describe women in more depth.

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        Bet you thought you were posting a meme.

        No you must answer for this form of liberalism.

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          This is why hexbear is the greatest web zone in the Internet

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          You joke but to my eyes this is a facet of social reproduction

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        https://www.abc.net.au/news/2025-05-07/combating-loneliness-during-identity-shifts/105177772

        In Australia at least women report about the same if not higher levels of lonliness than men. Never hear about it though. Yay patriarchy.

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          Man carrying things - Male Loneliness Epidemic

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            I found a YouTube link in your comment. Here are links to the same video on alternative frontends that protect your privacy:

            • yewtu.be
            • inv.nadeko.net
            • yt.artemislena.eu
            • piped.video
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        TBF it’s not just a “you” thing, it’s a problematic framing in the larger cultural/media landscape. Even most feminist spaces treat having a feminine friend circle as the default for women, and often have trouble acknowledging the problems women have forming relationships or that toxicity can exist in intra-feminine relationships.

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          I wanted you mention that I have met a few women in my life who felt very ostracised in women’s spaces. Usually because they’re a bit different.

          Again, I don’t pretend to have much insight into this.

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