• PKMKII [none/use name]@hexbear.net
    link
    fedilink
    English
    arrow-up
    19
    ·
    1 month ago

    TBF it’s not just a “you” thing, it’s a problematic framing in the larger cultural/media landscape. Even most feminist spaces treat having a feminine friend circle as the default for women, and often have trouble acknowledging the problems women have forming relationships or that toxicity can exist in intra-feminine relationships.

    • ButtBidet [he/him]@hexbear.netOP
      link
      fedilink
      English
      arrow-up
      10
      ·
      1 month ago

      I wanted you mention that I have met a few women in my life who felt very ostracised in women’s spaces. Usually because they’re a bit different.

      Again, I don’t pretend to have much insight into this.