I made it clear from the start that I’m only responding to the “people use it differently” thing, not whether people should use the term at all. Because it’s a different discussion. I’m not condemning nor justifying the usage of the word. I’m only arguing that when people use it they are using it with the same definition the other user laid out.
I’m not saying it’s unreasonable to ask if it’s overused, I’m saying that “I disagree that people use that term in the way you say” shouldn’t be met with “people shouldn’t use the term” because I’ve said multiple times I’m not saying anything about whether it’s an acceptable term or not.
For what it’s worth, although it seems like a tangent, I do think that’s what was originally meant in the comment that started this chain and I was trying to help. I agree that people are using it with its intended meaning (but could be making an error in judgement).
Yeah, I don’t see why that’s such a difficult concept to grasp. I suppose maybe they believe their interpretation of scenarios is always the objectively correct one and also incredibly obvious so anyone with a different interpretation is wrong? Unsurprisingly, that’s a pretty condescending way to view the world. They seemed to want to twist my words to make what I was saying into something about “snap judgements”.
I made it clear from the start that I’m only responding to the “people use it differently” thing, not whether people should use the term at all. Because it’s a different discussion. I’m not condemning nor justifying the usage of the word. I’m only arguing that when people use it they are using it with the same definition the other user laid out.
I’m not saying it’s unreasonable to ask if it’s overused, I’m saying that “I disagree that people use that term in the way you say” shouldn’t be met with “people shouldn’t use the term” because I’ve said multiple times I’m not saying anything about whether it’s an acceptable term or not.
For what it’s worth, although it seems like a tangent, I do think that’s what was originally meant in the comment that started this chain and I was trying to help. I agree that people are using it with its intended meaning (but could be making an error in judgement).
Yeah, I don’t see why that’s such a difficult concept to grasp. I suppose maybe they believe their interpretation of scenarios is always the objectively correct one and also incredibly obvious so anyone with a different interpretation is wrong? Unsurprisingly, that’s a pretty condescending way to view the world. They seemed to want to twist my words to make what I was saying into something about “snap judgements”.