• vivalapivo@lemmy.today
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    3 days ago

    IDK, I often find myself mansplain and not infodump. I am not from the boomers, I’m not sexist in any rational way, I’m pretty left leaning, I am though a piece of shit sometimes.

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      2 days ago

      I think that’s how most people are. They don’t identify as sexist, but they do sexist things because of conditioning. No one ever thinks they’re a bad person, best we can do is try to be aware of our bullshit and keep learning.

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        2 days ago

        No one ever thinks they’re a bad person

        Well, there are people who do identify as sexists. Hell, the latest Jubilee episode shows that there are people identifying as fascists. All I wanted to say is that I do not believe that men and women have fundamentally different capabilities.

        Nevertheless, I do sexist things and it’s disgusting and I have little to no control over it. Hopefully I will grow to control it

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          2 days ago

          Without getting into philosophy, people who call themselves fascists and sexists don’t necessarily feel they’re “bad” because of it.

          Yes, I made a generalization, but this isn’t a term paper and I don’t have references.