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minus-squaredeaf_fish@lemm.eelinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up8·29 days agoI think if you’re interested in dating or sex, and you have preferences that are deal breakers. Ask for what they’re equipped with. Similar to how if you’re planning on dating someone today and if have sex is important to you. You communicate that. And ask them if they are asexual. It’s perfectly okay to have deal-breaking preferences for these things. Good question.
minus-squareRin@lemm.eelinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up3·28 days ago Ask for what they’re equipped with. Thanks for this, I think your advice is the most practical for a variaty of situations.
I think if you’re interested in dating or sex, and you have preferences that are deal breakers. Ask for what they’re equipped with.
Similar to how if you’re planning on dating someone today and if have sex is important to you. You communicate that. And ask them if they are asexual.
It’s perfectly okay to have deal-breaking preferences for these things.
Good question.
Thanks for this, I think your advice is the most practical for a variaty of situations.