The funniest part is I don’t think of myself as femboy or trans but ads seem to think I am (and increasingly so). They also think I am a furry and they are spot on lmao… Really makes me wonder if I am living in denial ngl

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    5 days ago

    Nothing wrong with wearing these kinds of outfits, they are very comfortable and also adorable. I say why not try it out, you might end up liking them and it’s not like it’ll hurt anything.

    I wouldn’t recommend getting them from Temu though, in my experience from buying from Temu quality can be very hit or miss. Especially when it comes to things like clothing. Sometimes you get good stuff, sometimes you get crappy stuff that’s thin and falls apart very easily. I recommend higher quality brands for clothing like that, but Temu can be okay if all you want to do is try it out to see how the look suits you.

    self-promo

    psst… I recommend cross-posting to !196@pawb.social since this is a furry related meme and it helps out the community

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        4 days ago

        I get my thigh highs from Sockdreams (I got a few cable-knit ones from Amazon), skirts I’ve gotten from Amazon, a few from Etsy, and some from thrift stores. Oversized hoodies I’ve just gotten on Ebay.

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    5 days ago

    2 years ago I made a joke about this to my boyfriend as well (though it was Aliexpress who send me a mail after buying some tech stuff). This year I discovered I really like comfy socks … and I may have ordered a skirt as well. Not worn it yet, but it is here. Slowly & steady 😂

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    5 days ago

    They also think I am a furry and they are spot on

    From furry to femboy is like getting out of bed and going to the bathroom

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        Nonsense, clothes can’t be too cute for you, they’re clothes and lack the ability to determine any worthiness of a given wearer. The only thing you have to fear is looking so cute that other people try to give you compliments and talk to you.

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          5 days ago

          They say the higher you climb the harder you fall. So if I don’t climb at all I can save energy and hurt myself less >.<

          Jokes aside I personally just do not care about MY OWN gender / sex but I do support free choice of both because it should up to oneself and oneself alone. So I usually just stick to the factory standard (except if I want to trigger some ultra conservatives) but you can refer to me however you want as long as I know I am being referred to. :3

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    5 days ago

    The funniest part is I think of myself as femboy or trans

    My friend, you tried your hardest to deny your truth, and your subconscious still leaked through :D

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      14 hours ago

      let’s not push people into identities, yeah? femboy is a perfectly valid identity and doesn’t mean someone is “actually trans”, only the person themselves can decide if they’re trans.