I’m with you. There are some things in life that are just obvious without having to be told. You don’t go around punching workmates in the face and they don’t specifically have to put that in the onboarding. You don’t walk around a kid’s playground with no pants. You don’t continue to accept nudes from other people after you start a relationship.

I am evil. You can be too.

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What was the point of this? The disturbing sex? More insecurity and perhaps a desire to “own” it or an effort to rewrite your history. She makes the most recent memory of doing this stuff with her. This is now the predominant memory when you think about that sex.

Do I bring this up?

Depends, I guess. I’d want to know if she has gotten this out of her system or if this is just the start of it. I can’t believe she has just purged her insecurities just like that. Make-up sex is hardly likely to have changed some basic personality flaws. You’re hardly likely to get the real answers you want either.

Is she actually fine now or is there still an issue?

I reckon there is still an issue. She might have gotten some of it, much of it, out of her system. But as they say, forewarned is forearmed.

Could be as simple as reserving popular usernames too.

Its probably similar in other places, but where I live, between public holidays, 10 sick days a year, shutdowns over Christmas and New Years, and annual leave you will be working four day weeks and paid for five days for significantly more than half the year anyway.

Maybe Lemmy was like this at the very start and is what helped Lemmy kick off, but I think a lot of people are looking for an alternative to Reddit. I think you’re going to see a lot more people coming here for the content, not the politics of it all.

Are there any more guides for Moderators and about editing communities? e.g. can images and banners be edited after creation? Where exactly are the mod tools options to found as a moderator? I’m very new to this and there is very little that is obvious to me.
This basic guide is very helpful but where can I find more? thanks in advance

Or an even bigger impact by having fewer children.