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  • As others have said communication. There are going to be some uncomfortable conversations, they aren’t going to get more comfortable by avoiding them. And the more important conversations you have the better you make the foundation for long-term success. Revisit these conversation at least once a year.

    Sex (and what “type” each of you like or want to try), kids, household chore division, finances, etc. The types of affection that you like to give and receive. Make each other feel valued and loved.

    You’re Indian and in an arranged marriage there are family/cultural expectations such as having kids until at least 1 boy, wife doing all chores and childcare. Deferment to your parents etc. These are all in fact unimportant in actually having a successful and (hopefully) happy marriage. Always be on each other’s side more than anyone else’s.

    If she wants you to take the lead, do so but keep it open for her to say no and listen if she does.









  • The laundering would come from making extra profit per bs sold because its charged as a full burger but only takes a cheese slice out of your inventory/stock cost. You’d lose some of it to franchise overhead and a corporate analyst would probably catch it at a chain when they get greedier but you could do small scale laundering for a while if you didn’t get greedy.