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Gemini guessed that this is “Gone Home” by Sam Greenbriar. No idea if that’s correct but it seems plausible.

…nice.

Jumping in, I also have a lot of BPD experience (example, a marriage of well over 10 years).

This is very BPD-adjacent. I’m not saying OP’s gf has it per se, because there is no way we can know from here, but this is definitely on brand.

If you read between the lines, the social conversation could written as this:

“Heading home, I need support”

“I’ll support”

<Doesn’t support>

<She feels abandoned, fight or flight kicks in and it turns her attachment-avoidant, results in silent treatment>

<OP gives space, which is interpreted as further abandonment>

<OPGF can’t take it anymore, and asks questions that feel like they’re out of left field because in fight-or-flight kicks in, clear thought is nearly impossible>

<OP finally gives reassurance that he didn’t abandon her>

<Normalcy continues>

RyanLiu@lemmy.world read through this comment chain, therapy is the answer here.

Don’t have that type of two-to-one in LEGO bricks. You’d need a 1x2 plate and then plug the head stud into the middle indexing pin of said plate.

I didn’t ask what the lesser of two evils is. I’m not blind.

My point is, saying that Biden is losing it mentally isn’t exactly a hot take.

Sinclair is a piece of shit org.

That said, is there really any doubt that Biden is not very sharp? Countless videos of him trailing off in the middle of a sentence or whatever. Trump too, both are messes mentally and should retire imo.

TEDx

Don’t forget that you’re also allowed to ask them to play, if you should feel like it

I mean…

Taking the tag off a mattress.

Yes, shared joy is double joy. Where’s the question?

I had the same laugh. So tone-deaf.

Light slaps like you’re packing a can of dip.

I want an all-Tacoma C&C now.

I do love me some Toyotas.

Had nice ones, had shitboxes. They all make some monkey brain in me so happy to drive.

No hate on other cars. I respect all builds. But Toyota seems to have some blueprint of my nervous system that makes me have fun in them.

Did you look this up or do you have encyclopedic knowledge of Generals quotes ^(too) ?

I read all of these in-voice haha.

Good luck on your travels! The road to enlightenment is lifelong, not a race. I wish you the best!

Ok well if you are neurodivergent, a couple things:

Autism self diagnosis is valid if you do your research. University of WA recently did a study that figured that out.

ADHD typically needs a diagnosis from a professional to be sure, but it’s not super hard to guess if you have it. Some symptoms of ADHD can be caused by other conditions (anxiety especially) so navigate that one with caution.

If you are neurodivergent, typically the answer is routines rather than habits. I find them much easier to implement. Just decide the task you want to make into a routine, decide the steps you want to do it in, and then decide to always do it that way, or at least until you want to optimize or tweak it. A simple routine I do is “keys, wallet, phone, ear buds” while tapping my pockets on the way out of the door.

Not sure if you are per se, but this is a commonly felt sentiment in the neurodivergent community. Especially ADHD and Autistic peeps.

It’s true, my wife is autistic and can’t even eat a single food meal. She has to have a side or something.

I’m the opposite, she used to constantly question me for taking the exact same lunch for YEARS hahaha.

In case it’s not clear, we are both legitimately autistic.