I guess my private server and open source appview conntected to the ATprotocol are a conspiracy theory then?
No, but they exist at the whim of Bluesky. Having multiple endpoints on your network doesn’t make it decentralized, if every endpoint is controlled by a single entity. This is an important distinction, because Bluesky can prevent a specific instance from interacting with the entire ATProto network, something which is not possible on ActivityPub, as there is no such authority who can completely shut down anybody else’s instance.
!trendingcommunities@feddit.nl and !newcommunities@lemmy.world are probably good starters.