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  • Ngl I love tailwind, I’ve been through so many different css paradigms

    • separate css files: why did we ever do this, if you’ve ever used kendo’s css stuff you’ll understand how unfathomable hundreds of thousands of lines of css with complex rules is. Identifying all the things that affect a single component is the work of dozens of minutes at minimum, sometimes hours, you have to understand every nook and cranny of the css spec.
    • inline styles: fine, but verbose and requires object spreading, harder to compose, theming is tough and requires discipline to be consistent in your theme conventions, almost impossible to also theme imported library components
    • module.css with imported classes: my go to outside of tailwind
    • scss: I actually really like scss but it exacerbates the complexity and mystery of css, great for small projects but terrible as projects bloat
    • bootstrap: basically just worse tailwind, providing only components and colors

    That’s all I can think of right now, but tailwind is my preferred way to style a new project, I love how easy theming and style consistency is







  • It’s easy to confuse friendship with deeper feelings, human connection is weird.

    If you’re not romantically into him, you won’t be in a thruple, you’ll simply be sharing your partner with your friend.

    Monagomy isn’t for everyone, and arguably polyamory isn’t for many people at all. I’ve seen a few of these work out but it requires very different mindsets and your mindset right now sounds like it’s on the sexual side (considering it exciting) instead of on the relationship/partnership side. Excitement is short lived, exercise caution.

    Don’t ask the internet, talk frankly with all parties involved. Be aware that the relationship may already have expanded past monogamy non consensually.



  • I wouldn’t move to wyoming of all places, for sure, that place is hell on earth. The boston metro area is great for aging, especially as you get well into your 80s and your ability to drive flags. The lack of community infrastructure in wyoming will mean you’ll either die or have to go into a home as you age because how will you get groceries? At least in the boston area you have ready access to taxis and ubers and public transit everywhere.

    Don’t forget that the politics of wyoming are vastly vastly different than the boston area, you’re going from one of the most progressive areas in the US to one of the most conservative states.

    Living a rural rancher lifestyle requires hardiness and support structures. Most ranchers have generations in the same place, know their neighbors, have local community, etc. You’re coming in as a stranger and people out there hate outsiders coming in. It’s an expensive hobby and a hard job.

    If you like dust, fires, wind, drought, mormons, republicans, big rig black cloud trucks, and guns you’ll probably like it.


  • 0x01@lemmy.mltoRelationship Advice@lemmy.worldI'm concerned over my partner
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    11 days ago

    Once your partner does what they want at your expense they have decided they are more important than the relationship. Effectively they have already broken the relationship agreement, leaving you to pick up the pieces.

    The modern world is harsh and cold, a lot of people turn to alternative income streams in the hopes that they’ll escape the pain of normal work. However based on his rhetoric he would likely not support you through the same goals, you supporting him when he wouldn’t support you doesn’t make you a good person, just a victim.