Hell, Lemmy can be this way too or some other instance somewhere else in the fediverse. It is almost inescapable.
Yeah honestly people are just antagonistic everywhere I’ve learned. There’s no perfect place. I think Lemmy is better, but there are also jerks everywhere
I’m struck by the fact that the Reddit is now just straight fucking video content almost exclusively. And most of it is just reposts from TikTok.
It happened so slowly. But it’s just video, video, video.
I don’t like video content. Video content is not entertaining. Video content eats up the bandwidth on my phone. I do not like Reddit.
Maybe it’s an ADD thing, or an ‘aging millenial shaking thier fist’ thing, but video is soooo slow.
For reference or discussion, I always seek text first, to the point I’ll even download/make transcripts if video’s the only place I can find something. They just have so much filler.
No that’s just true, videos are designed around ad slots — not content. A text guide you can scan through yourself is infinitely superior.
Video seems designed for people who mainly want to be entertained for a few minutes (usually just over the 10 minute mark, never mind how that is the exact limit tied to increased advertising revenue…), rather than people who seek actual information to parse.
Ngl, while eating lunch this describes me. But I more often want information too, otherwise, and yet ever since Google purchased and decided to promote YouTube the text based ones seem to mysteriously be much more difficult to find…
Don’t get me wrong. Some YouTubers are great and informative, and I adore those random washing machine repair videos… But yeah. As reference its an awful format.
It’s like how discussion has mostly move from forums, to Reddit, and now to Discord. I get it, it’s highly engaging since it pings your phone and folks shoot the breeze, but it is an information black hole.
Pause. Play. Pause. Play. Rewind. Pause. Play. Rewind. Pause.
FUCK
Sigh… yup.
But it’s odd how we shifted from (the also incorrect)

To

Agreed. There’s also the issue of indexing. You can’t curl+f a fucking video.
Auto-moderator: Your post has been removed because you don’t have enough karma.
ah yes the good old caste system that makes you post normieslop on your karma farm subreddits.
No, they won’t come into your post/comment and lecture you about something, because they have 100000000000000000000000% better knowledge than you! Just don’t exist.
edit: you used wrong meme, let me tell which one you should have used instead…learn to post the right meme or don’t post at all /j
Actually, the post you made which is factual to you is incorrect, because I have a different opinion and what you experienced as a real life event is false. Now your opinion will be downvoted so no one can see it, you know, to keep discussion vibrant and engaging. Now please only re-post last week’s top post or the gifs that appear at the top of every post.
And in order to be forgiven within our online frathouse, we demand that you post several unfunny and recycled memes. We also require it that you join in comment chains to continue a series of unfunny, repetitive jokes that stopped being funny a decade ago. And lastly, we would appreciate it if you never uttered a single word that would displease our hivemind should we report you to our lord and savior, u/Spez.

Nobody exists on purpose.
😳😐🙂↔️ Gonna try to erase that from my memory!
… on purpose!?
Happens on Lemmy too.
Probably all social media.
The Lemmy version is: “guys I want to install Linux because I’m not comfortable with Windows but I’m not a tech genius and I just want a computer that I can install the OS and not have to worry about it again because I don’t have a lot of free time and I don’t want to have to spend hours troubleshooting it ever and I don’t understand any of the terms you guys throw around when you’re discussing Linux. I don’t know what OS to choose or how to set up the post install and I’m super confused, I hear you talk about repos, and incompatibility with drivers, and picking different options that I don’t understand what they are or how to choose and it’s like you’re all speaking a different language.” “well if you want to rot with Windows then you deserve to have all your personal data stolen, it’s a willing choice you made at this point you idiot, why are you even here?”
Or just buy a Mac. You do have several thousand dollars to spend on that don’t you?
Either that or you get bombarded with communist apologia until you learn which domains to avoid
Unfortunately many people instead simply leave Lemmy entirely (and then complain about exactly that over in r/RedditAlternatives).
Never went back to reddit. But i get it. My current blocklist on lemmy is longer than it ever was after 10 years of reddit. The relative amount of weird stuff on here is too damn high for a normie.
Good riddance to Reddit. Unfortunately there are certain niche topics that are discussed only where people choose to discuss them, and if that means Reddit than so be it… 🤢🤮 (though I now lurk rather than comment or even vote - it just not seem worthwhile to engage while having to be constantly on guard against the heavily contentious user base there, plus also fuck spez obviously 🙃).
Here on the Threadiverse I got so tired of blocking so many people that I graduated to blocking entire instances. Hexbear.net and lemmygrad.ml are already defederated from on PieFed.social, but I also blocked lemmy.ml. Not for the communism btw - slrpnk and dbzero are true communist instances - but for all the continual assholery and alternative facts spouting, it simply improved my experiences here by 99% to do so.
I understand very well why new people flee rather than stick in long enough to figure out how things work enough to do the same. This is just one more reason why, despite how often people talk about being desperate to leave X behind, the Fediverse model is not even considered. If we don’t make this a place welcoming to non-technical normie users, then they… I dunno, won’t feel welcomed, I suppose? (And exceedingly few instances seem willing to defederate from lemmy.ml, or even make it opt-in for new users rather than simply throwing them straight into the deep end and leaving them to their own devices.) Also I see multiple conversations here dedicated to promoting murder (of politicians or whoever), so I wonder how much longer it will be safe to access such “antifa” current (at least that is what it will be labeled as, language correctness having been entirely set aside) for people located in the USA - which makes up such an exceedingly large fraction of the Reddit (and former Reddit) user base.
Same. Blocked .ml, blocked so many sublemmies, blocked certain topics and names and just a few users. With that its a pretty sweet experience. But when i visit logged out for one reason or another it gets ugly really fast.
Sometimes i get FOMO because a lot of .ml users post in a topic which i just cant see. But i made the mistake to unblock .ml twice and regretted it just in a few hours.
“And because that my karma points are incredibly higher than yours will ever be, my words are like gold and yours is like dirt. I know exactly what I speak of and know everything of Linux on the back of my hand and in my sleep. Moderator, please displace the trash that has decided to speaketh within our vicinity as I make a fabricated report that you are just a filthy little ban-evader despite having only encountered you for the first time ever”
Damn, be careful as you gonna give people PTSD flashbacks with such an accurately descriptive comment as that!
Well yes but… every time in the last 2 year whenever i tried to post ANYTHING(meme,brainstorming,ideas,help) i got so many people to hate speech on me that i had to delete every post i made. Well in terms of every social media has haters i am totally agree. But in my personal view currently reddit holds the crown as one of the most toxic paople on social network.
Fair enough. It makes sense it exists in different degrees
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