like, if I’m nice (as I would prefer to be), a man might get the wrong impression, but I’m also afraid to be rude or do anything to upset them so I have to be the right kind of nice or polite - it’s a real double-bind, and something I don’t experience with women


thanks for your comment, but unfortunately this community has a rule that only women are permitted to comment or post, so please don’t comment further
hope you understand 💛
What if he’s bigender? I don’t think we should assume that just because someone’s a man, she isn’t also a woman.
Then he should have commented as a woman!
Valid, I’m sorry