like, if I’m nice (as I would prefer to be), a man might get the wrong impression, but I’m also afraid to be rude or do anything to upset them so I have to be the right kind of nice or polite - it’s a real double-bind, and something I don’t experience with women


Tha5s why you always gotta be a bitch in public.
unfortunately he was referring to the women :-/
Oh why isn’t the comment removed then?
I see it as removed, maybe it takes a minute for the change to federate?
Still shows as unremoved for me. Probably just weird federation issues. Lots of comments do show as “Removed by mod”