I made a similar post a couple of years ago, but I think it’s time again after seeing a few nice-guy/incel posts here. So, guys who have made it to the other side, what would you say to your previous self? I’ll leave my own personal answer in a comment below.

  • Tollana1234567@lemmy.today
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    12 天前

    “niceness” from incels is very different from genuine niceness with no ulterior motive, with an incel mind, its always expectation of gain, when they dont gain something from its always a mysogynistic response. its very easy to detect when someone is being Actually nice, and someone is faking a niceness.

    • rah@hilariouschaos.com
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      12 天前

      “niceness” from incels is very different from genuine niceness with no ulterior motive

      I disagree.

      its very easy to detect when someone is being Actually nice, and someone is faking a niceness.

      That seems very naive to me.