I still try to give people the benefit of the doubt, but I’m quicker to minimize contact with them and keep them at a distance if I sense I’m being mistreated. I’ve found calling out the bullshit to be counterproductive because those types are more likely to get defensive than acknowledge they’ve done something wrong and change. It takes a lot for me to become confrontational.
I still try to give people the benefit of the doubt, but I’m quicker to minimize contact with them and keep them at a distance if I sense I’m being mistreated. I’ve found calling out the bullshit to be counterproductive because those types are more likely to get defensive than acknowledge they’ve done something wrong and change. It takes a lot for me to become confrontational.
For me it’s the opposite, I’m much more quick to confront others nowadays. That said, my bullshit tolerance did also plummet.