First question: how would you handle situations where you show interest in someone by writing a thoughtful blurb (maybe even witty), and they liked it enough to match with you, but not actually respond?

Second question: for those people out there who have someone show interest in you by writing a thoughtful blurb (maybe even witty), why would you not at least also say hi or some other basic acknowledgment? What is the expectation?

  • Lunatique Princess@lemmy.ml
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    2 days ago

    Allot of girls I know of match with guys so they can have a long list of matches. It makes them feel better. It’s dumb and shallow but that’s sometimes what’s happening.

    • shalafi@lemmy.world
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      20 hours ago

      Well that’s just fucking sad. Only knew one woman like that IRL. She must have been hella repressed because she went fucking NUTS after she left her first husband at 22.