• Beacon@fedia.io
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    15 hours ago

    I respect it, but i don’t get it, and it would be a complete deal breaker for me. What do you think a person on a date in a public place is gonna do to you?

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      12 hours ago

      right, this is basically saying “i don’t trust you not to spike my drink, take me to a second location, and rape me”

      and maybe you shouldn’t be online dating at all if that’s where you start out from

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        12 hours ago

        But even then, no one needs to ask you out on a date to do that. Any time you go out in public by yourself that could happen just as easily. If you’re that unreasonably fearful then i don’t want to spend time with you