trans women are trans women. trans men are trans men.

all people are valid. but don’t expect all people to validate you.

i really have an issue with trans people who think i must validate them in their identity or i’m a horrible peron. I dont’ expect them to validate me in mine. Just go live your life and i’ll live mine. I’m happy to acknoledge your humanity, but i don’t care about your gender identity anymore than your nationality or your taco toppings.

to me it’s equally as obnoxious when someone demands I validate their ‘heritage’ or their ‘hotness’ or ‘success’ or whatever. just leave me alone.