I’m bi because I have all the symptoms, finger guns, awkward puns, can’t sit in chairs properly, require at least three beverages at any given moment etc.

Also, the flag has all my favorite colors.

Also, I could just be old? Lol

To be honest, a person’s gender and/or genitalia are easily the least interesting things about them to me. I tend to feel sexual attraction only after establishing connections with people, which I believe has another name, demisexual. However, throughout my life I have dated men, women, nonbinary folks, folks who had no idea how to define themselves, etc.

My current partner is a man, but if he came to me today and told me he was trans and wanted to start living as a woman, I wouldn’t bat an eyelash. If he wanted to get fake tits but keep his dick, also don’t care. I love him, and “he” is so much more than his body. It makes perfect sense in my head and that’s all that really matters I guess.

I’ve had friends argue with me that “you’re actually pan!” but the word doesn’t personally resonate with me. Anyway, I find most of the discourse around labels slightly reactionary and/or virtue signally, “I’m a true queer/queerer than you!”, type shit. Pick your favorite color flag and go have (consensual) fun!