I was wearing a sports bra that gave me more of a distinct shape for passing reasons in the beginning. But after more than a year and a half on hormones, I’m starting to have pretty distinct breasts.

I have some women around me that have pretty strong opinions about not wearing bras. And I understand. Sometimes me or the people I know get weird looks in the street because some people can see that we’re not wearing bras and there are clothes and… I don’t think this should be our problem. It sounds like it’s a problem on the people looking at us, not on us. They’re just tits, get over it.

That being said, I don’t really have that much of a strong opinion about it, and to be completely honest, I’m not really sure what’s the point of a bra for me? I feel like they’re too small to justify wearing a bra? I’m actually not sure of when I should start, or even if I should start at all…

It’s strange, nobody taught me these things. My body is changing and morphing and well, nobody really taught me or prepared me for any of what’s happening to me, I’m kind of like left to fend off on my own and I’m relying on my other women’s friend, whether they’re cis or trans, but some questions I’m a bit too scared of asking. Or ashamed.

On one hand, I feel like it’s basic stuff that I should already know that on the other hand… well, it doesn’t feel basic at all. :/