I’ve been making new friends recently and going out with them. One of the times a bunch of us (me included got really drunk). I was all over this one guy putting my arm around him and leaning towards him in between his legs while he was sitting down. I don’t remember if we kissed or if nothing else happened.

Anyway, we went out another time and he asked me if I thought we were going to fuck. I didn’t know what to say and said maybe, and he said that he thought we would, and then I agreed with him (because I do like him).

But now I keep thinking about that and wondering if I need to do something to make that happen. Like text him or something. I just feel nervous because I’ve never texted him before (we’ve only been in group texts together). And I feel like if I do text him I’m going to fuck it up, because this (having mutual interest with someone in person) has pretty much never happened to me before so I don’t really know how to navigate the situation at all. Please help.

  • SkyezOpen@lemmy.world
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    1 个月前

    he asked me if I thought we were going to fuck. I didn’t know what to say and said maybe, and he said that he thought we would, and then I agreed with him

    I mean, it seems pretty settled. Ask him out for drinks one on one, or just invite him to your place or wherever you plan to bone down.

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      1 个月前

      Thanks! I guess maybe I’ll ask him out to drinks. I’ve been in my head like this wasn’t as clear cut of a situation as it is. I needed to hear this, thanks!!!