Eh, valid, but the implication is that she needs the stimulant (perhaps due to AD(H)D) or the MAOI in tobacco and OP can substitute a less harmful form that is also less unpleasant. Supplying options is not (necessarily) control and it’s likely less trouble than the shit show that getting ADD drugs is in many places… This can (and should) be done with their consent you know.
Switch 'em to vapes (and perhaps a MAO inhibitor), gonna be worth it…
Simply get your partner to change in the way you want
Eh, valid, but the implication is that she needs the stimulant (perhaps due to AD(H)D) or the MAOI in tobacco and OP can substitute a less harmful form that is also less unpleasant. Supplying options is not (necessarily) control and it’s likely less trouble than the shit show that getting ADD drugs is in many places… This can (and should) be done with their consent you know.