• Kowowow@lemmy.ca
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    4 days ago

    If I was the quiet one and people noticed or said something I’d probably leave the group

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      I wouldn’t. Like, half of the people I know say that about me. They’re wrong, and that’s okay. I just talk when I got something to say

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        4 days ago

        I just hate the idea of people noticing I’m doing something different than before, anti character growth on a personal level

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          Understandable and relatable. You’re allowed to notice a change, but please keep it to yourself. Or relay it to others behind my back, that’s honestly better. If it’s not harmful, then it needn’t be discussed.