I’m not really into trans people, so I only date cis men. Not trans men, not nonbinary people, and not women of any kind. However, my former boyfriend is now my girlfriend, and IDK how to tell her I don’t like women without her taking it the wrong way.
I wrote:
Hey, L,
I know you’re probably asleep, but I kind of needed to talk about something. I want you to know that I fully support you coming out as trans. I think it’s good that you’re finally your true self. However, I wanted to say that I’m straight. I’m, unfortunately, not that into women, which you are. I’m sorry, it’s just my preference. Know, please, that we can still be friends and I can support your true womanly self along the way, but I’m not interested in women and I can’t keep dating someone and lying about how I feel.
I hope you understand, E 🙂
I hope your breakup goes smoothly and you remain good friends (I assume your relationship was good to start with). It’s never easy to breakup, but rip that bandaid off as kindly as possible. She’s not of your attracting gender and that’s no one’s fault. ✨Friendly after-midnight internet stranger thoughts to both of you.✨
It was very good, thanks so much. She said we probably wouldn’t talk for a while as she processes the breakup