Someone isn’t afraid of losing their rights
If you keep basing your enjoyment of life of what other people say, it doesn’t matter what they say, you’ll be miserable.
Politics are politics, your feelings are your feelings, keep those apart for your own sanity.
I’ve definitely done this, but I hate the way this is phrased. This makes it sound like the left are a big club with rules: “Thou shalt first acknowledge how shit the world is, or else.” What BS. It disallows for the possibility that this is actually how people are feeling. They must be doing it because of social pressure. I don’t think anyone on either side of the political divide would admonish you if you just posted about your engagement, but (for myself at least) it’s legitimately how I feel about things right now. 100%, A-grade, home grown despair, baby! I ackowledge it because it’s really how I feel, not because my friends would chastise me if I didn’t.
Hear hear!
I propose a replacement trend:
- “FUCK ICE we had a baby!”
- “BURN DOWN THE PATRIARCHY and come to my wedding!”
- “BE GAY DO CRIME it’s my Birthday!!”
- “ORCAS ATTACK YACHTS let’s have a goddamned LAN party!”
- “PUNCH A NAZI I got my PhD!”
The US is funding GENOCIDE. Bake sale today!
I kind of get it, though. Like, things are bad and might be affecting the people who you’re interacting with even more, and when things are generally shit and someone is just obliviously dancing around going “Look at this neat thing that happened today!”, it’s hard to tolerate. By saying “I know it’s bad right now, but this small thing happened and I wanted to share it”, it sets the proper tone to avoid that. Maybe that’s just me, though.
Well put. I definitely feel this way.
Jake makes two mistakes: doesn’t realize people actually feel this way and thinks of people on the left as some organized group who stage this.
I completely agree, there’s a definite layer of leading with a statement that you’re on the right side of whatever the dominant demographic feels strongly about. It seems like if you aren’t personally suffering enough it means you’re part of the problem. Call it non-poverty guilt?
i wonder if Jake Eaton is a young white cis male with a comfortable safety net 🤔
Oh absolutely. This reads like a sigma grind set ice bath guy that’s brushing against an actual thought.
I’d say a chunk of his social circle is men and women like that, this behaviour has white guilt written all over it.
In the immediate aftermath of a traumatic event, this response is completely warranted. After 9/11, it was difficult in America to celebrate anything immediately after. You had to address it. “I know we are all in pain, but my son was born today and I’m happy.”
The reelection was traumatic for those that remember the insanity of the 1st term. And it ended in a worldwide trauma that we are all still trying to wrap our minds around.
After a while, though, it can be seen as performative. But let’s give people time to grieve if they need it.
How can this person sit there and say this and not acknowledge being kidnapped off the street by a terrorist group for nothing else other than having brown skin or dare being gender fluid and think for a second life can just go back to being normal?
What the actual fuck is wrong with you, Jake.
I get the impression that when he says “find your own way out,” he actually means “stop caring.”
I take it more as “find a way to come to terms with it” don’t let it ruin your every personal moment
Maybe we should actually try to fix societies problems so that kind of thing no longer feels necessary
“Fix society’s problems”
You didn’t want to start with something more modest like world peace?
This is the kind of reply that pisses me off.
You’re either ignorant, being facetious (and bad at it), or just plain a bad actor.
Did you have any actual solution? Or just want to accuse others?
Maybe start by advocating for better education for low-income individuals who have fallen prey to systemic cuts to their social aid programs and are prone to voting against their own interest due to being subject to propaganda their entire lives, thereby building a base of well-informed voters and community members who would then be more well-equipped to tackle and help tackle other issues around them- in their local community, but also on a national level.
That’s just one thought.
Your shitty “oh you didn’t wanna start with world peace” jab shows that you are either purposely trying to be an asshole, or you don’t understand that small changes lead to big ones. Obviously we’d start with world peace if that were an option, and I’d imagine it’s the other commenter’s end goal, but you can’t have world peace when it’s built on an inherently violent and broken system. Unless your definition of world peace is genocidal thought policing.
Yes there are already solutions to pretty much all the problems we currently have, we just need to collectively decide to enact those solutions
I agree with this.
As a leftist, celebrate life and fight so others can have those celebrations. Checking your privilege can be an entrance to that battlefield, but it can also stall out there. And it can feel like something important has been done because of how much feeling it has. But stalling out there does nothing to liberate anyone.
I feel this to the extreme, I got engaged shortly before the election and I didn’t post an announcement or anything because it felt like the engagement was from a different era, at once only a few short weeks and eons ago
Sounds like this person doesn’t understand empathy, which seems to be a common thing on the Right. It’s way easier to say “F them, I got mine” when you have no basic empathy for other humans.
They aren’t talking about empathy, this is something else. It’s about the guilt of feeling happiness in a world that seems like it’s going in the wrong direction.
That guilt is understandable, but when it becomes so pervasive that you feel the need to express that guilt on every single expression of joy, that seems unhealthy for society, and it makes people much less likely to join a movement.
They lack empathy is my point. The person doesn’t understand why the Right fucking everyone over constantly would make people feel bad/sad/depressed. The thought of others doesn’t even occur to them, it’s all about them, how they are the victim.
