• answersplease77@lemmy.world
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    wtf who will go to library and read a book about rape or hiv while they are still nervous or tramatized by it? shit makes no sense. You will either search the internet or see a therapist.

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      Kids/teens whose at-home internet usage is monitored by strict parents, and who can’t seek therapy without their parents’ consent/knowledge. The parents may even be complicit in/perpetrators of the rape.

      Domestic abuse victims who live with their abuser.

      Homeless who can’t regularly afford internet access or a therapist. Many homeless people regularly rely on public libraries for internet access, and are common victims of rape and abuse. So why not direct them to other resources while they’re there?

      Elderly victims, who still fall back to books instead of the internet, and who grew up with a heavy stigma surrounding therapy. Elder abuse is a very common problem, as they’re often a very vulnerable demographic with few friends and limited mobility.

      People who just like to read. For many people, books are a source of comfort. Not everything has to be done on a smartphone or desktop.

      Just to name a few…

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      The internet is full of bullshit advice (ESPECIALLY around sex and health issues). Doctors and therapists cost money, and frankly aren’t the best way to just get basic facts and education.

      My small local library has kiosks near the exits where you can check out a book completely unassisted. I could walk in, pick out the most embarrassing book, check it out, and nobody would ever have to know.

      Thanks to a sign like this, someone who didn’t know the library had such resources, and/or was too embarrassed to ask, has a better chance of accessing that info. And they also know that the library staff WANTS them to be able to access that info, further reducing any stigma they might feel.

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      You’re a troll, but I’ll entertain you. “Books about rape or HIV” can also be books that are meant to be an emotional help instead of just a book with facts.

      Some examples for books about rape:

      • I Have Been Raped, Now What? by Susan Henneberg
      • Sexual Assault: The Ultimate Teen Guide by Olivia Ghafoerkhan
      • Shout! by Laurie Halse Anderson
      • Strong at the Heart: How It Feels to Heal from Sexual Abuse by Carolyn Lehman

      Books such as these are meant to help against the trauma.