It is over the top but unfortunately i have seen it with my old friends and certainly coworkers. Especially the really lonely desperate women all flock to the louder, flamboyent type men. I think it is simply that they want someone who gives them attention, loudly. This way they feel loved and everyone knows that they are loved, unfortunately everyone else can see these men for what they are.
Why the fuck is it still called Margaret Court Arena? For those who don’t know … https://www.sbs.com.au/news/article/who-is-margaret-court-the-controversial-tennis-great-who-is-back-in-the-spotlight/xyjg40bnr
Forgive my phone for not getting links to work.