Coco

I agree with the comments saying to talk to her about it. One thing about trans people is that we are people and you can talk to us like people, lol.

Just imagine she’s cis if you need to, and wanting these things. She wants care and treatment to be the self she wants to be. How do you handle it?

To be honest, I think you’re doing a great job so far. If you’re worried about it… Just talk to her. 💖

Mom is level 2.

Dad is level 4-5 depending on the day.

My wife’s parents are both level 6. Haven’t talked to them since we came out.

Very excited for Dawntrail. My FemRoe game remains strong!

It’s a very nerdy one.

In Final Fantasy XIV, there’s a race of little dudes named Lalafell. Their naming scheme makes for repeated and rhyming couples between the first and last name.

I made a Lalafell boy years ago named Cocozan Cozan.

After playing for a bit, my wife’s character and mine got married. I decided to change my character’s last name to hers, so the Cozan was gone. We always joked about the height difference, though, since I was a little guy and she was a taller race. So I joked about making the tallest character I could, which I believed at the time to be a female Roegadyn.

We quit playing for a while and then returned to the game a few years later.

When we came back, I decided it was time for a change and used an item that lets you change your appearance permanently. I ended up finding an old saved appearance from when I was joking about Fem Roegadyn, and just went with it.

The name Cocozan was no longer appropriate, given the lore, but I found out I could drop the Zan and it would fit fine.

So I became Coco.

It was absolutely amazing being called Coco and she/her by folks online. It wasn’t the only thing that did it, but the whole thing absolutely helped crack my very thick egg.

I ended up stealing my character’s name IRL, and now I have a very nerdy origin story.

It’s a shame, really. A non-centralized internet has existed before and must exist again if it’s to remain useable. It’s sad so many have given up because of early internet struggles. Things are even far less painful now than I remember them being in the past.

Very real and relatable. Except my spouse was the one on your end of things opposite my other partner.

It didn’t end well.

Lol, much happier now than before. Thanks! 💖

Lol, it’s me. Pre-transition I was very potato, and now I’m very rabbit. Potato to rabbit pipeline.

Animal Crossing New Horizons. Game came out right at the start of a pandemic and within two weeks I was girl moding in game.

Took me a year and a half to understand what that meant exactly, but the game let me explore what it means for me to be femme and try on different looks.

I probably would have figured it out without Animal Crossing, but I bet it would have taken way longer.

I can relate to this. I play Final Fantasy XIV and changed my character to female, probably because my egg was cracking already.

But having people call me “she” and “femme” and being happy about it… It felt amazing and definitely shattered whatever egg was left.

Being too homosexual.

FFXIV

I’m the middle kid and I needed attention.