she/her Bi and Poly girl who’s into linux, retro games and music
seeing alot of transphobia in the comments, light and probably accidental but yes deadnaming caitlyn is transphobia even if she fucking sucks.
it shows the trans people here that your acceptance is conditional on us agreeing with you.
you can call her out for her bs without deadnaming her
It gives me hope yeah, alot of my family and coworkers are extremely conservative and it’s given me hope that they’re not the default for cis people. I’ve since gotten away from alot of them and met irl friends who’re more accepting but the presence of people online who didn’t begrudgingly tolerate me before then has given me hope and the courage I would need to advocate for myself and not accept the bare minimum
I don’t want to sound mean with this I’m sure you mean the best but this isn’t a debate
Deadnaming and/or misgendering someone purposefully is transphobia and doing it because they’re a bad person is still transphobia
As a trans person I’m saying that if you are transphobic to someone even if they’re bad is conditional acceptance whether you mean it that way or not
People were deadnaming her in the comments, that’s transphobia not an opinion