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  • Proxmox gives you a nice (and limited!) front end to manage containers and virtualization, but it also lets you do other cool stuff like resource pooling, credential management and too much to really get into.

    Really powerful enterprise and whole organization level management in that package.

    It’s not the only game in town, but it’s free and well documented and I recommended bare metal Debian as a stepping stone as opposed to alternative because proxmox runs on top of Debian so knowing that system is very nice.

    The overhead is real. On the other hand, all your little vms and containers are rarely doing something all at the same time so it doesn’t matter.




  • Eventually proxmox will be the right choice for you. Right now it’s not because you’re not skilled or knowledgeable enough to be able to navigate it.

    That is not a dig or a slight, it’s a very powerful and complex package built on top of an already powerful and complex package.

    Just do containerless normal person Debian then when everything’s running how you’d like and you’re ready you can migrate to proxmox.

    The big benefit of doing that instead of jumping into proxmox with both feet immediately is that you’ll be learning more and be able to solve your own problems as you get to the point of using proxmox.





  • Another poster said there’s lots of ways to get past doh/dot and they’re right. The goal is to run your ech packet safely to your dns server. To that end, make your vpn server connection first then ask for ech from your trusted doh/dot server.

    If you’re dealing with dpi you gotta fuck up your packets a bunch to get them through. It makes things slow.

    A good way to avoid dpi is to just not deal with it. Often dpi systems are at border crossing points so if you connect to your trusted vpn endpoint inside the borders of the place you’re trying to obfuscate from you can make it out to a dot or doh.





  • Okay so when everyone tells you to behave differently and you think it’s excessive what’s the reasonable thing to do?

    A normal person would decide to leave. Oh so im not allowed to park my lifted super duty across six spaces? Fine, guess I’ll take the beats pill to the Walmart parking lot one county over. Your loss, this country rap crossover playlist was about to get epic!

    A person who has some kind of perverse negative attention thing would stay. After all, there’s no rules posted in the park that say a grown man can’t sit on the bench wearing nothing but a diaper fastened with a comically large safety pin and bonnet licking an oversized rainbow swirl lollipop. You have every right to be there!

    Even if you take umbrage at having your abdl behavior posted about on the internet, you’ve spent more time and written more words defending your choice to post like a fucking adbot.

    If you valued your own time you would just be normal instead of doing what you’re doing!



  • It is not tribalism to expect you to behave differently than someone who gets paid per click.

    You are not the aggrieved party in this case, everyone who has to deal with your bullshit is.

    parks car sideways across six parking spaces

    “Oh, look at all this tribalism! Can’t these people tell I’m their ally?”

    Just act normal and when people tell you you’re fucking up, take steps to correct it.




  • The other reply is a good answer, but also dropping a video with no context or explanation is a hallmark of content spammers and growth hackers.

    Even if looking like a crappy kind of poster isn’t enough to dissuade someone from just dropping a link and fucking off, providing some context and input to how and what the link will do and what it means as a post in the particular community is a lot better behavior and starts a conversation as opposed to doing nothing.