your not wrong but I live in the south, if you think black woman had nothing to do with it you’re wrong

we’ll he’s not black or female

downvoting me win’t change how racist/sexist america is

literal abusive behavior ‘look what you made me do’

fucking tool

I personally know a lady that had to leave alabama after two run in with racists at gas stations in a couple months because her mixed race kid

this was in 2020

not to be mean but that reads like ‘fellow voyagers’, it’s a lot of work to keep close when apart like that

I had a few female friends like that in college, it ended poorly but they were solid friends, it gets harder when people start having kids and such especially across different states (people say this, it was this way for me, ymmv)

lmao reads like Big Trouble in Little China … just take out only the ‘black’ part keep the ‘sploitation’

I love that movie

I genuinely feel for attractive people

I’ve been moderately attractive once for a few years in my life and it was fucking awful, got grouped multiple times as a guy, can’t imagine being a hot woman for decades

it does always feel like people want stuff from you

then it doesn’t really matter what gender imo

so yea what hobbies are these exactly that you’ve made multiple life long friendships over?

how much time do you spend with them weekly? how does your significant other feel about this, this can be a problem with even straight guy friends

I’m really curious about specifics because it’s never as simple as your posts play it out to be

I’m sorry are stereotypes uncool? did we both read the same op? should I have made my anecdote a funny little story? or is it just the ogny part you have problems with

handwave the attracted part to mean good fit and not just sexually appealing

so the greeks break down friendship into a number of groups and most women I’ve met that became friends have been ‘fellow voyagers’ so not much shared interest keeping long standing ties

so assume limited time in your life, what exactly do you do with these dearly loved women that don’t make relationship material? do you share hobbies?

if I share interests with a woman and we’re both single and I’m attracted to her why would I not want to ask her to be my gf?

would not drop a relationship if she turned me down but would prioritize any future gf over her, same with a dude barring a massive discrepancy in years known

I have seen this play out first hand and the woman friend then got jealous of the new gf lmao, personal experience says women still want to be your focus even when just ‘friends’

they can be but then the MC is a 40 year old office worker while she has a troubled past and daddy issues

jokes on you it’s fucking 8 am