Reddit refugee, gamer, bird and kid mom, crocheter, curmudgeon, post-civ anarchist

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My gaming channel: https://www.youtube.com/c/OriginalGamerGirls

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  • You’ve got to toughen up. If she’s waiting for you when you get home, tell her you don’t have time to hang out and close the door on her. Tell her it’s not appropriate that she keeps inviting herself over and that you can’t be available for her on her whim. The only way to set boundaries is to set them strong and plain and then do what you have to do to enforce them. If that means walking in your door and shutting it in her face that’s what you need to do.

    She’s not your kid, she’s not a relative, she’s not your responsibility. Tell yourself that when you feel yourself folding. She’s pushing you because you’re not drawing the line in concrete. It’s not mean to set firm lines with people that take advantage of your good nature.






  • I’ll be 59 this year and have been gaming since Pong. They’ll pry my controller from my cold, dead fingers. Also, I’m a woman as is the circle I play with, who are also all older women (45+). We do exist and couldn’t give a fuck about what society thinks about it.

    Better gaming than just being a potato watching TV every spare minute with no other outlet.

    Gaming’s been shown to help prevent dementia because it keeps the brain active.

    Consider that the women that you’ve been trying to date that don’t appreciate gaming just aren’t the right partner for you.