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Cake day: December 30th, 2025

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  • Christ, thanks so much for this reminder. You commenting this reminded me about how I used to talk about my “lack of dysphoria” before I medically transitioned. No matter what I could say about things, I could never deny that I’d press that magic button in an instant to change myself over. Changing my genitals to a vulva feels literally no different, and I think that should tell me something quite important.

    I think the problem I’ve got with taking the leap is: I’ve got several quite serious chronic illnesses. One of them is hEDS, which can make pain relief very difficult and complicated. With my POTS, I also worry about post surgery complications and being out of work for too long. That and, the money would be so much, which I sorely need to make my life livable and accessible.

    That being said, I will be preparing all I can to make it possible if I do choose to in future. Worse case scenario? I have a nice chunk of savings in a couple decades time.