This is not like dealing with generic libs who are just strangers. At a certain point you just direct them to https://hexbear.net/PPB or tell them to fuck off since a lot of them don’t want to argue in good faith.
No this is family. What they are doing ends up pushing you away. And that shit hurts. But if you don’t fucking move on, it ends up fucking you up and I’m not going to let them fuck me up.
So I’m sorry you hate my advice. It comes from a place of having to deal with that Trump hater bullshit myself and ultimately having to say “enough with this shit”.
OP can take it or leave it. I’m done.
GarbageShoot said it best earlier:
The keyword here is “obsession”. OP’s mom is literally spiraling. My mom was literally spiraling. Both of our moms were actually being abusive.
That is why I said to let go. When they become abusive, you have to leave them. Period. Sometimes, realizing you’ve been left alone because of an unhealthy obsession can snap a person back to reality. In my case, for my mom, me leaving helped her. To her, losing me was way worse than having some orange skinned imperialist buffoon in the white house.
I don’t know if OP leaving their mom alone will have the same effect, but from what OP described in their opening statement, OP’s mom became abusive towards her child with her derangement, her obsession. From that revelation, my comment was about leaving an abusive relationship. Nothing more.